My fiancé might be cheating on me with my female…
DEAR ABBY: I’ve a female good friend, “Kylene,” who wants yard work completed weekly. My fiancé, “Josh,” goes over there to do the work for her. He costs $60. During the last two weeks, she has been popping up at our home uninvited. Kylene is aware of Josh’s work schedule and makes sure she sees him daily at the neighborhood bar around 4 in the afternoon. The other day, I went to the bar with Josh, and lo and behold, she was there ready for him. I used to be fairly upset, because I don’t see my Josh very a lot due to his tight work schedule.
Do you suppose she is stalking my fiance? Kylene hardly talks to me when we’re all together. She talks principally to Josh. I’ve always believed that you don’t combine business with pleasure. I feel she’s stalking him. Kylene doesn’t have any mates, and I feel she’s jealous of me. What do you suppose? — SUSPICIOUS IN INDIANA
DEAR SUSPICIOUS: I feel that relatively than stalking Josh, Kylene is “chasing” him. How does Josh really feel about it? Is he flattered? Is he attracted to her? Have you mentioned the fact that her dropping by your home unannounced is inappropriate? I agree that your “friend” might be jealous of you, but the particular person who ought to put a stop to what has been going on is Josh, not you.
DEAR ABBY: My husband was let go from his job due to restructuring. He’s understandably upset, and I see him sink additional into depression with every rejection letter he receives for the positions he has utilized for. How can I help him? — SUPPORTIVE WIFE IN OHIO
DEAR WIFE: Help your husband by not pressuring him during this tough time. If he hasn’t yet utilized for unemployment advantages, remind him he’s entitled to them. Suggest that if there are no openings in his discipline, he ought to think about using his abilities to do one thing different and maybe contact a non permanent employment company. Let him know you’re a keen listener, but don’t pump him for info. If no job turns up for him in the next six months (and if you aren’t already employed), contemplate discovering a job to relieve the financial stress.
DEAR ABBY: I’ve labored with the same six girls and three males for 19 years. Each time one has a birthday, we have now a small workplace occasion with lunch, cake and ice cream, and a present in the $50 vary, and the birthday particular person will get the rest of the time without work. This is finished for everybody besides me.
Although it hurts my emotions, I’ve never said something about being excluded, and no one appears to have observed the omission. I did inquire (twice) if anybody had dined at a restaurant my husband will be taking me to for my birthday, but no one picked up my trace that I’m also a half of the employees. Should I politely continue celebrating other people’s particular days or proclaim, “Hey! I’m here, too!” — INVISIBLE CO-WORKER
DEAR INVISIBLE: As the saying goes, “The squeaky wheel gets the grease.” Could you might have inadvertently been omitted from a record of worker birthdays? By all means, converse up before it’s time for you to retire.
Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also recognized as Jeanne Phillips, and was based by her mom, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at http://www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
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