Nikki Glaser kind of likes her boyfriend…
Being mistreated by your companion is stylish now, girls!
He’s not strolling out on you if you let him. It’s not dishonest if you fake you’re into it. It’s not infidelity — it’s attractive!
At least that’s what superstar influencers would love you to assume — such as Nikki Glaser, who insisted that her boyfriend sleeping with other girls is definitely a flip on.
Nikki Glaser revealed that she likes when her boyfriend, Chris Convy, hooks up with other girls. AFP via Getty Images
The comic, 41, said she “kinda [likes] it” when her boyfriend, a pretty unknown TV producer called Chris Convy, hooks up with other girls in a Wednesday episode of the “Call Her Daddy” podcast.
Open relationships are controversial enough, but that’s not precisely her setup: “I don’t really care if my boyfriend were to hook up. But that is not a two-way street. I’m not someone who likes to hook up when I’m in a relationship… But I don’t care if someone else were to.”
It’s stylish to be non-monogamous and to be romantically open minded. But so often, it’s girls being requested to sit by while their husbands run through other girls. They cope by calling it “empowerment,” but it’s a unhappy approach of enabling cheaters while hiding behind progressivism.
Glaser said that she doesn’t see other people, but likes when her boyfriend does. Getty Images for Vanity Fair
However, Glaser told Call Her Daddy host Alex Cooper “emotional cheating” was a step too far — yet another doubtful qualification she makes use of to justify the unjustifiable.
“If a guy has a inappropriate connection with a girl, and he wants to use protection and just have sex for a night, I literally wouldn’t care if my husband did that,” she said. “If he were to… do crossword puzzles and send memes and stuff [to another woman], I would be like, ‘What the f—k are you doing?’”
Glaser — host of HBO reveals “Blind Date” and “FBoy Island” — said she needs “a guy that other girls want.” But what’s particular about that, if they’ll all have him? It’s a symptom of a tradition that has devalued intercourse. If there’s no emotional connection, we’re told, infidelity doesn’t truly matter.
Glaser said that emotional dishonest is a step too far. Kevin Mazur/Getty Images for iHeartRadio
Glaser isn’t the only celeb with this type of poisonous dynamic. Author and comic Lindy West admitted in her latest e book “Adult Braces” to capitulating to her husband’s ultimatum that he wants to find a way to sleep with other girls — even though the request left her in tears.
“I was devastated,” she told the New York Times. “Our initial conversation was a lot of me crying and being like, I don’t want anyone else… I thought we would probably have a baby and buy a house.”
But now she’s so joyful, she swears, about her new life with another lady — her husband’s girlfriend — in the home her late father left to her.
Lindy West claims that she is joyful in a thruple, following her husband’s demand for an open relationship. thelindywest/Instagram
“I love sleeping in the guest room and crawling into bed with them in the morning,” she writes. “I love when they tuck me in and leave me to play on my phone as late as I want.” Sounds great! You go lady!
It’s a lifestyle that poisonous manosphere influencers promote, too, just with a completely different political valance. “Fresh and Fit” podcast host Myron Gaines explained he was in a related set-up as Glaser’s in an look on the Netflix documentary “Inside the Manosphere.”
“I do what the f—k I want to do,” he boasted. “She’s loyal to me. It’s monogamous on her end, open on my end. She packs my f—king condoms when I travel, that’s how real it is.”
Myron Gaines of “Fresh and Fit” has advocated “one-way monogamy.” @freshandfitpodcast/Instagram
He calls it “one-way monogamy,” and has rightfully been called a misogynist for selecting the lifestyle; when progressive girls celebrities say the same, it’s empowerment! In follow, it’s no different.
Our tradition has accepted a fact: males have a tendency more often than girls to stray in relationships. But, relatively than ask them to be better in their partnerships, progressive feminists have finished the most regressive factor attainable.
They’ve catered to the patriarchy, and given males permission to go hog wild. They can have all the perks of relationships, plus all the women they need on the facet.
Perhaps there may be the uncommon one in a million lady who, for whatever motive, is turned on by being left behind while her husband is out with other girls. But, for every one of her, there are numerous others who have been talked into their own debasement in the identify of empowerment.
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