Selfish boyfriend secretly quit his job — and then…
Oh no, he didn’t.
A girl’s boyfriend didn’t inform her he quit his job — and then accused her of being unsupportive when she didn’t need to pay the full rent they once break up.
The annoyed girlfriend took to the r/AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC Reddit discussion board to vent about her scenario — which has since been deleted.
This boyfriend is the definition of a man-child. DusanJelicic – stock.adobe.com
She explained how she and her boyfriend lived together and break up the rent 50/50. While issues at home appeared to be high quality and dandy — the unique poster began to discover that her man was home more than ordinary, particularly during occasions when he ought to’ve been at work.
“Everything was going fine until a few weeks ago.” She wrote that she requested him what was going on and he sneakily replied, saying he “was taking some time off.”
The OP had to be taught of her boyfriend’s impulsive choice to quit his job from their mutual pal.
“I asked him straight up, and yeah, turns out he just quit. No notice, no conversation with me. His reasoning was that he felt burned out and needed to reset,” she wrote.
This boyfriend was clearly only considering about himself in this scenario. amnaj – stock.adobe.com
“I’m not unsympathetic to that at all, but I feel like quitting your job without a plan or at least talking to the person you live with is a massive red flag,” her post read.
To make this scenario even worse — the irrational boyfriend anticipated the OP to take on the financial burden of the couple’s dwelling scenario while he was unemployed, by selection, and called her “unsupportive” and “selfish” when she refused.
“I told him I couldn’t do that. I work full-time, pay my own bills, and I’m not in a position to carry both of us, especially not without a heads-up,” the OP wrote.
Alexa, play “Manchild” by Sabrina Carpenter.
The post has over 1,000 feedback from people who wholeheartedly assist the OP — and not this wacky boyfriend.
“Time for him to move out and find someone (like his mom) who will put up with his nonsense. You thought you were in a relationship with an adult, but he’s turned out to be a man-child who was just looking for sugar momma. The fact that he’s just quit and not even tell you shows that he has no respect for you or how hard you’re working.”
“Start paying his bills and I promise he will never ‘figure things out’ and you’ll be covering his dumb a– forever. And he went crying to his mommy about it? So many red flags.”
“Get rid of that man-child. If he wanted shared finances, he should have gotten married.
If he’s going to behave so stupidly, he should not be married.”
This isn’t the first time the web got here after an irrational man.
A hardworking girlfriend shared in the r/AITA subreddit discussion board that she and her fiancé also break up the whole lot 50/50 and when she requested if they may rent a cleansing service to frequently, every weekday, come to their home — her boyfriend refused.
“When we first moved in, I took on most of the cleaning and cooking… but after months of juggling work, house chores, and cooking — sometimes even having to cook while in the middle of meetings — I burned out. Completely,” she relatably wrote.
She introduced up this cleansing service thought, but “He [her fiancé] got really upset and said it wasn’t necessary, that I’m being lazy, and that I’m trying to avoid any responsibility for housework. That made me furious.”
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