Husband wont reveal salary to wife…
What’s yours…isn’t mine?
Finances are always a difficult matter that people don’t often need to focus on. Yet, one would assume if anybody goes to reveal their yearly salary, it could be their partner — effectively, not in this marriage.
A pissed off wife took to Reddit to ask for advice on how to deal with the fact that her husband received’t reveal what he earns. In a post in the r/AITA discussion board on Reddit (which has since been deleted), the unique poster shared how she and her hubby have been together for 9 years, married for one.
She revealed that he was always personal about his funds — one thing one would assume would change once marriage was on the desk — and that he now handles all the couple’s funds, while she takes care of their home and makes sure the fridge is stocked.
“We’ve seemed to settle into this arrangement with no issues from either side,” she wrote in her post. “He’s never disclosed how much money he makes annually or given me any insight into his finances.”
This pissed off wife’s last resort was working to Reddit to air out her marriage grievances. djoronimo – stock.adobe.com
“He also bought our new house without me being present or even knowing he purchased it, saying it was a surprise,” the OP shared. “I did tour it before and really liked it so it wasn’t an issue, it’s just the fact that I was not included in this decision-making.”
Although this wife doesn’t appear to be very clued into their bills, in the post she shared that she’s beginning to keep monitor of her spending, at least, since she makes use of her own money to pay for her own issues.
Yet, she has no concept what her husband earns, nor will he show her bank accounts or statements. Instead, he tells her to assume, based on the fabric issues they’ve as a couple, that he makes a good chunk of money for the 2 of them.
“I said I understood that but I feel that if I’m going to have a child with you and become more dependent, I’d like to fully understand. He says that it’s not important and that I’ll tell people,” she wrote.
Reddit customers assume this husband is out of line for never displaying his wife what he earns. Africa Studio – stock.adobe.com
Reddit customers weren’t having any of it. “These are things you need to talk before marriage but better late than never I guess. It’s very sus that he is refusing to let you in the loop regarding his finances. NTA,” wrote one shocked commenter under this wife’s post.
“Get a full-time job. Make sure you don’t get pregnant. Run,” suggested another person.
Sadly, this isn’t the first time a egocentric husband has shown some past weird conduct.
“Don’t get pregnant if he doesn’t put you on the bank accounts. This might be his way of trying to financially control you,” quipped another commenter.
One egocentric husband who is compelled to keep home and take care of his and his wife’s youngsters due to health causes complains about watching the kiddos while his wife is out working.
After a day of work, this pissed off wife has to come home to him, moaning and groaning that he’s had to look after his own kids. “He does one school drop off and one pick up. He has the rest of the day/s to do as he pleases,” the wife wrote in the U.Okay.-based neighborhood website Mumsnet.
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